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Started this discussion. Last reply by Gloria May. 3, 2008.

 

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At 6:21pm on May 2, 2008, Hulya T. said…
Hi Holly ,
Thank you very much for your very kind message.Of course I remember you and your dad at the picnic. Because I want to be your size in future:))))) it has been 4 weeks since surgery, im feeling very good all those bed feelings have gone away but i guess they're normal feeelings. I understand your concern about surgery, but you dont need to worry about it because doctor rutledge and his staff and people at the hospital are wonderfull. I felt very safe and confident with them. First six hours following to surgery is rough but then every hour you will be much better.
Regarding to packet we had very good experince, so if you need any help you can ask us( me or my husband).Plus you are very lucky because you are living wonderfull place:)))))) All the best.
Hulya
At 11:13am on May 1, 2008, Glenda V said…
I've been so busy, I've been at a stand still also. But I have a date!!!!! July 2nd is on the books! I'm very excited! I've got all of my arrangements for travel and such but haven't done anything else on my packet either. I have been trying to cut out the cokes, tea and coffee. I'm doing okay but not haven't kicked them totally ; )
Hope to hear from you again soon.
At 10:39am on May 1, 2008, Sonya Perkins said…
Holly I'm sorry you've been having such a rough time. I know how terrible the back thing can be, I've got a really bad back too and at least 3 or 4 times a year it puts me in bed for a week. I'm hoping that will be resolved with weight loss.

It is so easy for someone who has not struggled the way we have to say "eat right and exercise" they have no idea what we've been through. My first thought is absolutely, do not make your decision based on what he said. I'm not saying you should or shouldn't, that has to come from you, but you can't base your decision off of a comment from someone who doesn't understand where your coming from. I would trust Dr. Rutledge's advice more than his. Didn't you talk to him at the picnic? Did he act like he didn't think you should do this?

Let's say you are taking a walk in the forest and the path you are on is getting very difficult to walk on, it is getting rocky, and slippery, and there is a steep cliff on one side. It is starting to feel very dangerous and you keep twisting your ankle and stubbing your toe. Then the path comes to a fork. One path you can take leads you into a place where there is a cliff on both sides and you have to climb over thorny logs and huge boulders. It is a path that is even more dangerous and worse than the one you were on and it leads into darkness. The other path that you can choose is on even ground that leads through an open meadow full of bright sunshine and beautiful flowers. You can see at the end of the path is a fine cottage with your loved ones and all the things you desire for your life waiting for you. Which path would you choose?

My feelings about this are, if you can see that you are on a path that is leading you into worse health and higher weight with more co-morbidities why not change direction now instead of waiting until things are much worse. Again, I am not trying to convince you to do this, that is too personal a decision. Just make sure that you are making the decision based on the right things. Don't feel that you are weak if you decide to do this, it is not the easy way out. Make sure that you think about the alternatives in both directions. What will happen if you do it ? What will happen if you don't do it? What do either of these choices mean for your family and your future?

I'm sorry I'm going on and on. I just feel for you so much, I know that this is a tough decision. I'm here to talk whenever you want. I had my Dr. Appt and psych eval yesterday, both of them were very supportive (whew). I also got approved for a line of credit a couple of days ago so if my van doesn't sell then I'm covered. I'm scheduled for June 4th, I would love to meet you in person when I'm there.
>HUGS!!!<
~Sonya
At 3:42am on May 1, 2008, Denise said…
Oh, Holly I'm so sorry! I hope you are feeling better! I know you must be so disappointed! I was feeling down a couple of weeks ago, too ,and Sonya told me ... "don't lose hope, there's got to be a way for it to work out for you. I know it's got to be so hard to have your mind set on one thing and have it not work out like that. I imagine that you probably feel like giving up, maybe even have thoughts like"this is not meant to be" or "I don't deserve it anyway" I don't know, but it seems like those would be the thoughts I might have. But you can't give up, you do deserve this. You deserve to be healthy and happy and your family deserves to have a mom and wife that feels good."
Isn't she the best? I hope her words will help you, too.

Please know I am thinking of you and if I can help in any way, please let me know.

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At 6:45pm on April 28, 2008, Sonya Perkins said…
Hi Holly, I was just wondering how things are coming along for you. Doyou have a date yet?
At 11:31am on April 27, 2008, Denise said…
Hi, Holly! Just wanted to know how things were going. Do you have a date set yet? I quit caffeine on Wednesday, and needless to say it's been a rough week! Hope things are well with you!
At 8:59am on April 16, 2008, Glenda V said…
Just that we would do the labs in the 30 days and get the letter taken care of around that time too.
At 7:08pm on April 15, 2008, Glenda V said…
If you wait til July....I hope we'll be at the same time.
At 7:07pm on April 15, 2008, Glenda V said…
I have my letter/ family letter to write, psych eval, and just get the letter from my doc. I've talked with him a lot and he is 100% behind me. We are just waiting to be within the 30-45 day dime frame.
At 1:09pm on April 15, 2008, Glenda V said…
I met you at the picnic. Hope you are doing well. Are you any closer? I'm still shooting for July 2 or 3.

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Hometown:
Henderson, NV
First Name:
Holly
About Me:
Hi. I'm 38 and my highest weight was 214 lbs. last fall. I'm now at 205 lbs. I'm working on my packet and hope to have the outpatient MGB this summer with Dr. Rutledge. My dad had the MGB with Dr. Rutledge two years ago and it was the best thing he could have done. I'm a wife and mother of two, ages 3 years and 9 months. I've struggled with weight my entire life, and now am starting to get the co-morbidities (first, high cholesterol), the same path my dad took. I so want to be healthy, weigh less, feel physically good again, have energy, not hurt anymore (back, knees), and be a healthy example for my children. I feel the MGB is the answer for me too, as it was for my dad. I think it will change things for me so the rest of my life will be so much better.
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Feeling terrible

I guess its only fitting that I'm feeling terrible lately, as I'm working on my MGB packet/application. I'm only 38 and my two children (ages 3 years and 9 months) wear me out. How embarrassing is that. My lower back aches terribly and constantly now. My knees feel weak, etc. I'm on cholesterol-lowering medication. Its all my weight. I look in the mirror and don't recognize myself anymore. I'm tired, and I'm so "tired" of feeling this way! At this age - approching 40 - I should be running laps a… Continue

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